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Twerking: The New Form of Birth Control for Strippers?

Jun 20, 2013 No Comments by

As much as it pains me to share this information the day after Juneteeth; a few days ago, a segment of the social networking realm were in a tizzy after co-beacons of the internet media’s dark underbelly MediaTakeOut—(World Star Hip-Hop shares the distinction)­—reported that a popular Houston-based stripper and self-proclaimed “twerk killa” who goes by [...]

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Sugar Daddies and the Secret Lives of Black Sugar Babies

Jun 18, 2013 6 Comments by

When conjuring up an image of what the quintessential companion of a wealthy Sugar Daddy looks like, as dictated by popular culture, perhaps visions of a young, thin but buxom blond woman dances in your head. Or maybe an ‘exotic’, racially ambiguous variation, whose aesthetic still passes muster when it comes to rigid beauty standards. [...]

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Why Did Ellen Sturtz Think It Was Okay to Heckle the FLOTUS While She Spoke About Black Youth in Crisis?

Jun 07, 2013 No Comments by

So, what was Michelle Obama talking about when that GetEqual heckler interrupted her? When I first read about First Lady Michelle Obama’s confrontation with Ellen Sturtz of the gay rights group GetEqual, I laughed. The first lady was keeping it real. Sturtz clearly did not know who she was messing with, I thought. It’s no [...]

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Kaitlyn Hunt: Like Genarlow Wilson, She’s No “Rapist” or “Predator”

May 23, 2013 10 Comments by

I don’t see too many of “us” in the black blogosphere writing about the Kaitlyn Hunt story, and I think it’s unfortunate. Why? Because with a few exceptions, in many ways it mirrors the Genarlow Wilson case. What’s ironic, is that I don’t see advocates for victims of rape, like famed word-hustler and blogger, Gina [...]

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Street Harassment: It’s Not a Compliment

May 20, 2013 No Comments by

It’s spring. As temperatures continue to rise, I’m impelled to think about the crude comments women are assailed by, as they walk down the street in the summer finery they waited all season to wear. Street harassment is a daily occurrence experienced by women all over the world who navigate open, shared spaces with men. According to Stop Street [...]

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Louisiana Parish Passes Ordinance Outlawing Saggy Pants

Apr 13, 2013 4 Comments

Louisiana Parish Passes Ordinance Outlawing Saggy Pants On occasion when I’m in public I wear my pants below my waistline. Yes, I’m known to sag my jeans on occasion. Not exactly a fashion statement on my part; but instead, I do so more as a matter of comfort. You see, when you’re my age and [...]

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DOMA, Marriage Equality, & the Supreme Court

Mar 28, 2013 No Comments

Will Clarence Thomas, speak, clear his throat or sit like a lump of coal waiting patiently for Scalia to whisper in his ear…. 60% of people recently polled by ABC news say same sex marriage is okay in America. That same poll found that 80% of those under 30 support the idea. Those numbers should [...]

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Why Was Gay Black Mayoral Candidate Marco McMillan Murdered?

Mar 02, 2013 No Comments

Marco McMillan is described as a rising star in Clarksdale, Mississippi politics. Unfortunately for him, his family, and the individuals who supported his candidacy as mayor of Clarksdale, McMillan is dead. The black openly gay mayoral candidate’s body was found battered and bruised. I spoke to a friend with ties to Clarksdale a few days [...]

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On Loving Black Men: Unleashing the Curse

Dec 04, 2012 1 Comment

I was seventeen years old when I first considered what dating outside my race might mean. It was a year before the Italian man I’d been seeing promulgated it disgusting that I’d found a Black man walking down Michigan Avenue attractive. It was a year after my fifteen-year-old self told my high school friend I [...]

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Man Uses Bible to Threaten Woman with Rape at Gay Pride Parade

Aug 11, 2012 No Comments

Yes, you read that right: A man used the Bible to threaten a woman with rape at a Gay Pride Parade in Michigan. I realize I haven’t said anything about the Chick-Fil-A anti-gay marriage turned pro-gay marriage controversy in recent weeks. And to be honest, I’m not going to say anything about it; frankly, I [...]

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Bigot of the Week: Bryan Fischer, “Underground Railroad”, & “Drug-Addicted Addicts”

Aug 08, 2012 1 Comment

Right-wing religious fundamentalist Bryan Fischer of the American Family Association is no stranger to outrageous commentary. According to Think Progress, Fischer has sunken to a new low with his anti-gay bigotry by calling for an “Underground Railroad to deliver innocent children from same-sex households.” It would appear that Fischer has a fetish for days of [...]

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