Apologize for Being Raped: How One Missouri School Protects Our Little Girls

Aug 29, 2011 6 Comments by

This story isn’t that fresh and I think I may have put it on my mental back burner on purpose because things like this makes my blood boil.

Ill behaving humans is nothing new when it comes to the treatment of the more delicate of our citizens, however, I’m not even sure what the basis for this bullshit is right here.

A Missouri school has now been named in a suit by the victim of a rape. The female victim, an unnamed special education middle school student, made numerous complaints to school officials during 2009 about sexual assault and harassment. Her complaints were dismissed for the duration of the school year.

And then she was raped at the middle school.

The girl informed school officials of the attack and rather than investigate the allegations the school officials instead forced the victim to write an apology letter to the accuser after she recanted her story behind pressure from the school officials who simply didn’t believe her.

All this was done without anyone informing the mother.

If that’s not enough to make you disgusted…there’s more!

The victim was then expelled from school for the remainder of the year for making a ‘false crime report’; she was allowed to return to school the following semester.

The sexual abuse and harassment continued to the point where the victim began to experience nightmares and became depressed.

Court documents state her mother alerted school officials about the assaults in hopes they would do something to protect the alleged victim from further abuse.

The sexual harassment continued until the day came where the same rapist grabbed her and dragged her behind a stairwell during school hours to rape her again.

This time her mother took her to the hospital and got a rape kit.

This time there was a DNA match and an arrest.

This time there was another expulsion….for the victim for “disrespectful conduct” and “public displays of affection”.

The juvenile suspect was taken into custody where he eventually admitted to the crime and was found guilty.

Are you angry yet?

School officials did not respond to CNN’s attempts to get comments, but the school district released a statement on its website.

“It is important to remember that the allegations in a lawsuit are just that — allegations. The district has filed an answer denying the allegations,” part of the statement said. “The district cannot discuss confidential student matters and does not comment on pending litigation.”

Court documents allege the school district treated the incident like an inconvenience. Though I can’t prove it because the name and details of the victim is private due to the sensitive nature of the crime, however, I’ll bet you my last shiny quarter that the victim was either poor or brown or both.

It would be nice if I could sit here and type this out and pretend that sexual abuse of the mentally disabled is something new. Unfortunately, as we have seen in the recent instance of a competent allegation of rape, no one is much listening and victim blaming is still alive and well.

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Outspoken, spunky and coming out of left field, the infamous Tracy Renee Jones is a 2005 Cum Laude graduate of New Jersey City University with a B.A. in Political Science and a minor in International Law. Also member of the Pi Sigma Alpha Political Science Honor Society, she worked a duel career life as a para-professional during the day and an adult performer at night while perusing her education. Her writing interests include the undesirable subjects of Prisoner Rights, Child Abuse and Exploitation, Adoption, Sexuality, Human and Intercultural Relations and Politics. She writes for several online publications including the Examiner, Beyond Black and White, Clutch Magazine, The Trippie Hippie and The Kinky Courtesan. She is a featured contributor to the sex positive digital Corset magazine where she explores fetish, stereotypes and erotic presentation for women of color. Her book of poetry Me: Being Anonymous: A Book of Cursed Poem and Verse is available on Amazon for purchase. Writing from an emotional place and with a personal touch, TRJ likes her debates the same way she enjoys.....rough, uncompromising and often.
  • Anonymous

    These are the schools our country prides itself in having. A disgusting example.  Are our daughters really this devalued in our society? I hope they fire every person involved in facilitating this event.

  • http://brothawolf.wordpress.com Brotha Wolf

    Hi Ripped. This is Brotha Wolf, a long time reader.

    After reading this article, it’s no wonder why so many kids are dropping out if this is how they deal with problems like this. We live in a sick society where blaming victims will never seem to go out of style. It reveals how this nation views the value of life where race, gender, religion, etc. is concerned.

    I hope the student and her family fight this.

    • http://www.tracyreneejones.com Tracy Renee Jones

      You bring up a very good point, there are many children that drop out of school simply to be away from the dangers found within the school. I’ve visited some schools where I thought I was in some sort of detention facility. My own high school was nothing more than a housing unit where Black and Latino kids went to stay out the cold, possibly catch a free lunch and on a good day, to gain an education. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/ankhesenmie Ankhesen Mié

    If they are indeed poor, I hope they sue the school system into the ground.  Every activist group for the mentally disabled needs to step in.  I’m having flashbacks to the rape and torture of Megan Williams.

  • Anonymous

    I am disgusted as I am mad

  • http://primaldata.blogspot.com/ PRIMALDATA

    The problems in this story are so blatant and so human:she was special education, so she couldn’t know what she was talking about, she is imagining things, if she was forced to apologize the abuser was either popular, talented, or “going somewhere/connected” , which means as usual HE COULDN’T need to do it. Now yes everybody deserves their day in court, but NEVER make a victim apologize unless you actually prove that it was a false statement. And to Harass a young girl without her parent or guardian present, who the hell are these people.

    This may be an instance of “getting what you pay for”, all this finger pointing and class warfare has people not feeling “their job is worth the effort” so that when problems above and beyond their job description come up folks want to take the lazy way out. While I know they don’t want to be sued not only do they need to but they then need to turn around and become a champion for this cause as well as fire everybody involved with Expelling, Compelling and further abusing this young girl because they didn’t want to protect her. People hate the victim because they don’t want to admit the parallels in their lives and the victims “send them away so I won’t feel unclean”. 

    The same as many idiotic statements about:Bullying, the focus on athletics over education, hazing, and social stigma. It’s almost like it’s this shared amnesia people graduate from high school and get past their college attendance years and pretend they forget what school was like, like they don’t remember some of the harsh traditions. Bullying in High School is so old that back in the 1960′s when Stan Lee created his Spider-man character one of his on going ironies was that Flash Thompson, Peter Parker’s former friend and long time tormentor, was Spider-man’s biggest fan and vocal supporter. Peter Parker and Spider-man are the same person, Peter is the science geek and Flash Thompson is the athlete, everybody worships at the altar of Flash Thompson. Yet every time we hear talk of bullying and child on child violence people act like it’s a new phenomena, no it’s not we all know it happens some of us just turn a blind eye and dear ear because we don’t want to remember it any more. Adults are supposed to be protecting children, unfortunately some of us grew physically but not mentally

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