Barbara Jordan: Trailblazer, Leader… Common Asexual Mammy?

Mar 30, 2012 9 Comments by

I am passionate about a number of things, particularly issues pertaining to Black women.  And while I may project my voice about said issues and stand in solidarity with others pertaining to a particular movement or campaign, I am very leery about whose and what rhetoric I co-sign.  In essence, I’m very solitary in my work and the way in which I project my voice, as I don’t belong to any organizations or align myself with any groups. That aside, the behavior and writings of a certain subset of Black women on the web has been plaguing me for a while. They ascribe their work to Black Women Empowerment (BWE) and relish themselves as voices of reason for and elevation of Black womanhood. There are undoubtedly some women who’ve managed to carve out a niche on the web and use the BWE platform to inform and provide legitimate, insightful, and thought provoking content to the masses. They’ve been tireless with the work they put in advocating for Black women and our sensibilities; and are genuine in how they go about doing it.

Then there’s an offshoot of women who’ve latched onto the BWE movement while claiming to have our best interest in mind, but will write ill of Black women every chance they get. They liken the snark to “tough love” but I interpret it as nothing more than Mean Girl propaganda; which is often elitist, biting, and mocking. The line of demarcation between their agenda and that of most other BWE bloggers, is clear and they’re seemingly targeting a certain demographic of Black women… I get that. But, for those who don’t fit the aesthetic they believe Black women should have– which is a look seemingly dictated by Western standards of beauty and femininity, you’re nothing more than an unfeminine, “Black male-identified” Mammy or Ghetto Queen according to the discourse and memes unfolding on those platforms and Barbara Jordan is no exception to their rule…

Barbara Jordan was one of the most notable Black female figures in this country. An educator, lawyer, politician, and leader of the Civil Rights Movement, Jordan was a trailblazer who helped change the face of politics and shattered myths about what a Black woman’s capabilities were limited to. If anyone’s worthy of having their life brought to the big screen, it’s her.  None of Barbara’s groundbreaking accolades make a difference to some however, because they seem consumed by how she looked and are of the opinion that her particular aesthetic will somehow ruin the Black Woman’s “brand.”

Fresh from riding the wave of her much talked about role as Abilene in the movie “The Help”, Viola Davis seems up to the task of tackling the life of Barbara Jordan in a biopic she’s slated to star in and produce with her husband; much to the chagrin of chauvinist-sounding critics and definitely to the dismay of  a popular BWE identified blogger, who wrote

It’s a competitive world. I can see how this would likely play out in any movie: the WW partner would be portrayed as conventionally attractive and feminine, while Ms. Jordan would be portrayed as an asexual mammy at best. Or as a “butch”-looking lesbian at worst. Thereby continuing to lift up WW’s collective “brand” while tossing BW’s collective “brand” under the bus. I don’t want to see some mess about Closeted, Asexual Mammy. 

For me it’s not about homophobia. It’s about AA women’s collective “brand.” If there’s going to be a biopic about a closeted, civil rights era AA lesbian who dated White women, I’d rather see one made about Lorraine Hansberry, who carried herself with feminine grace and glamor[sic]. What I’d really like to see are some biopics about AA women like Lena Horne and Gloria Ray Karlmark (one of the Little Rock Nine who moved to Europe, married a European man, and has lived very well). I want to see biopics of AA women who lived well in the outer world.

I understood the gripes surrounding the politics of Viola’s role in “The Help” however, I can’t help but think that Viola being a darker skinned Black actress, on the cusp of playing a role about a Darker skinned woman is what unsettles some folks within that particular movement… and that’s troubling to me. It seems that, like Jordan’s femininity, Davis’ feminine wiles is being called into question lest she play a sexpot or prove that she has the same allure as Halle Berry or Paula Patton, in movies. I also think it’s ridiculous to undermine Barbara Jordan’s work and intellect, just because she didn’t look a certain way… particularly since she was a Civil Rights leader and politician, not Erica Jong.

Black women — particularly those hiding behind the cloak of the Black Women’s Empowerment movement— should know better and be astute enough to realize that we are not one-dimensional, monolithic beings with nothing more to offer than how we look or how sexual we are or aren’t. Halle Berry can attest to the fact that sometimes it takes more than baring your rack in a movie to keep film goers riveted. Doing so on-screen doesn’t prove a Black woman’s sex appeal; any more than acting demure dictates whether she’s feminine enough. Barbara Jordan may not possess the superficial traits that will enable Viola to vamp it up on screen the way the project’s detractors would like her to, but her story is profound and to a lot of other people that is sexy.


Relevant Reading:

What About Our Daughters: Barbara Jordan Was a Politician Not a Pole Dancer

Bitch Media: Adventures in Feministory– Barbara Jordan

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Tiff "Coffey" J is a freelance writer, short-story scribe, sporadic poet, intrepid Blogger, self-professed fire-starter, and coffee + wine lover. She has written features for print publications, has worked with professional theater company, HartBeat Ensemble, and is a contributor to other new media platforms. In short, Tiff J is just a woman who enjoys writing and drinking potent stuff. Much of her work can be found at www.coffeerhetoric.com. Follow her on Twitter: @Coffey0072
  • Anonymous

    Thanks for your input. I’m pretty bothered by similar dialogue I’ve noticed in these so-called “Empowerment movements” that only reflect Black identities whitewashed with Eurocentric ideals. Blackness is far from the monolith they like to paint it as, and we need to see the stories of women like Jordan so that we don’t confine it.

    • http://twitter.com/Coffey0072 Coffey0072

       Exactly and concur. I commend Viola for taking the reigns on this particular project.

  • http://commentarybyvalentina.wordpress.com/ Val

    Barbara Jordan was anything but asexual. She had a love affair with a woman for most of her adult life. Unfortunately she had to keep said relationship under wraps back then.

    And Ms Jordan spoke truth to power in a way that few other did in her time or even now. She was no one’s mammy.

    I have long given up on BWE blogs. They’re filled with women scorned who love to get together and commiserate about how horrible Black men are and how wonderful White men are.

     

    • http://twitter.com/Coffey0072 Coffey0072

      Val,
      It seems that Barbara Jordan’s story would be more palatable to the BWE blogger I referenced if she were a “lipstick lesbian”, otherwise she’s an “asexual Mammy” and that’s what bugs me the most. I’ll have to agree with you regarding a good portion of some bloggers who’ve latched onto the BWE Blogger movement. They take other Black women’s femininity to task if it doesn’t fit in with *their* aesthetic, which often times, seems to perpetuate European male patriarchal standards of beauty, female sexuality, and femininity.

  • http://mybrowneyedview.com msladydeborah

    I am not sure why it would be important that a movie about Barbara Jordan would need to cover the scope of her sexuality.  I have never given a lot of thought to who she had a personal relationship with outside of her role in the Congress. 

    What is important about Ms. Jordan is the fierce ability she displayed during her time in Congress.  She is the reason why the Watergate Hearings became interesting to me. I was totally mesmerized by her mastery of the English language and her no nonsense approach.  There are people who have never really seen a Congressional female member handle her business on the floor like Ms. Jordan.  

    In an age where people whine about not having role models it seems to me that there would be a level of appreciation for the fact that such a film is being made.

    • http://twitter.com/Coffey0072 Coffey0072

       Thank you re: –>”What is important about Ms. Jordan is the fierce ability she displayed during her time in Congress.”

      and THANK YOU re: “In an age where people whine about not having role models it seems to me
      that there would be a level of appreciation for the fact that such a
      film is being made.”

      I think what people need to realize… ESPECIALLY in this day and age… is that a woman’s allure is multidimensional. I take issue w/ the term “Asexual Mammy” being used to describe such a powerhouse. I appreciate the fact that Viola has decided to try to tackle her story and depict her legacy on the big screen. 

      • http://mybrowneyedview.com msladydeborah

        I enjoyed reading your commentary on this issue.  I tend to not pay attention to mental food that is primarily junk so I often miss statements like “asexual mammy”.  I cannot imagine anyone who has actually paid attention to Ms. Jordan’s career believing for one moment that this woman would be classified as anything other that a warrior!

  • Ktzmiao

    “I have long given up on BWE blogs. They’re filled with women scorned who love to get together and commiserate about how horrible Black men are and how wonderful White men are.”

    I thought I was being hyper-sensitive or judgemental but no, you’ve hit the nail on the head. I recognize the writing without even knowing the name of the blogger. Her solutions are always the same and they denigrate AA who do not look like her defined ideal and who do not opt to choose the same path as hers.

    To be so dismissive of the heroic Barbara Jordan is a travesty. Our race is comprised of all types and it takes the efforts of all of us to move forward, not simply those who meet the standards of self-proclaimed image-police.

  • Dusttracks

    Thanks for the post!  

    Seriously, the dramatic possibilities of Ms. Jordan’s story is off the charts!  I’d love to see a movie about her life.