Comments on: Stop Effeminate Black Men (Pt. 1) http://www.rippdemup.com/entertainment/stop-effeminate-black-men-pt-1/ Politics, Race, & Culture Thu, 17 Sep 2015 23:01:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.3.1 By: eltoca21 http://www.rippdemup.com/entertainment/stop-effeminate-black-men-pt-1/#comment-5295 Tue, 11 Nov 2014 01:29:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=16541#comment-5295 Are men who wear kilts in Scotland effeminate? Are men who wear sarongs in Fiji or India effeminate? Look back one hundred years and see what parents used to dress up male babies in? I can go on and on and on. Personally I do not want to live in a world of plastic replicated cloned automatons all doing and wearing the same thing. It’s bad enough kids being all branded up to the eye balls. This is such a non issue if ever there was one…

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By: Mwatuangi http://www.rippdemup.com/entertainment/stop-effeminate-black-men-pt-1/#comment-5294 Mon, 10 Nov 2014 23:15:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=16541#comment-5294 I am a Two Spirit, and have been since childhood. I think our reaction to this is overblown, and in many cases, problematic. People cite Perry et al and conveniently leave out the fact that men portraying women in comedies is an age-old tradition that precedes the rise of Geraldine, Big Mama, and Madea. It was originally common for men, in fact, to portray women in early theater. Yet, instead of questioning how these portrayals have led to the perception of Black women, we’re instead deflecting to our own insecurities about how people unrelated to us – and with a lot of privilege – are portraying themselves.

This “rise” of effeminate Black men is simply the acceptance that being a “man” doesn’t always comprise the stereotypical machismo we grew up absorbing. People who’ve never conformed to traditional ideas about gender roles now have more of a platform to express themselves instead of hiding behind monotony, and sometimes, the way that they choose this is through – shock! – what they choose to wear. I find some of the fads silly, but aside from that, I don’t really see why some of our folks feel like we have to “protect” our masculinity.

Nonetheless, enjoyed reading this.

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