On Loving Black Men: Unleashing the Curse
I was seventeen years old when I first considered what dating outside my race might mean. It was a year before the Italian man I’d…
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Relationship Follies: When Interracial & Intra-racial Preferences Collide
It amuses pains me greatly to have to write about more dating foibles and intra-racial squabbles between my sistren and brethren, but I’ve been reading…
Fumbling Towards Ecstasy
I turned 34 last month. I’m currently still single. That brief prelude out of the way, let me opine that there is nothing more daunting…
Where Yo’ Man At?
Celebrity gossip… Despite rumblings to the contrary, I think it’s fair to surmise that on some level we all love getting a voyeuristic peek into…
Butt-Naked While Brown: Black Females, Normalcy and Taboo [NSFW]
Does Black Skin Equal Dirty? I ask that question after an exchange on the front porch (Facebook) that occurred after I posted the link to my Tumblr blog since…
There Can Be Only One: But What If I Have Two or Three??
My One and Only Nearly everyone I know is looking for the ‘One’ and not all of them are single people either. The “One” is this elusive magical union…
The Sexual Subversive [Great Lovers]
Ultimately, we’re all fools for love… * * * -=[ Great Lovers ]=-Listen to learn and learn to listen.— Anonymous We all like to pay…
What’s The Tea on Black Love?
I always seem to find myself in the center of a debate on love. Love is at the core of my existence, even when I’m…
Black Marriage is Still Just a Marriage: Would YOU Take This Woman?
by Tracy Renee Jones I wouldn’t date or marry most of the Black females that I’ve ever known in life. Now you might suggest that…
But They Make It Look So Romantic!
by Joanna (JuJuBe) Ah, yes, unrequited love, a woman’s undying devotion to a man who barely knows she exists, that is the stuff of romantic…