Comments on: Pastor Jomo K. Johnson’s “Call Tyrone”: Not-so Helpful Dating Advice From the Black Pulpit? http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/ It's like a jungle sometimes it makes me wonder... Mon, 23 Jul 2012 20:44:00 +0000 hourly 1 By: Jomo K. Johnson http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2759 Jomo K. Johnson Fri, 06 Jul 2012 23:12:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2759 ?? ??

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By: yeah http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2624 yeah Mon, 11 Jun 2012 00:20:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2624 The book should be called "Collect Calling Tyrone". No ex-con, ex-drug addict pastor should be preaching to black women about their man problems. Sorry, but I find "pastors" like this CREEPY. Seems like they are just taking advantage of silly women. 2 Tim. 3:6 " creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins..." The book should be called “Collect Calling Tyrone”. No ex-con, ex-drug addict pastor should be preaching to black women about their man problems. Sorry, but I find “pastors” like this CREEPY. Seems like they are just taking advantage of silly women. 2 Tim. 3:6 ”
creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins…”

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By: Anonymous http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2417 Anonymous Tue, 08 May 2012 12:51:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2417 Already heard the interview. It would be great if you could respond to the actual content of the post instead of directing people to your website for hits. Already heard the interview. It would be great if you could respond to the actual content of the post instead of directing people to your website for hits.

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By: Jomo Johnson http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2403 Jomo Johnson Fri, 04 May 2012 12:37:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2403  The Interview with CBS Atlanta's  Lorraine Jacques White, on Call Tyrone is now available at CallTyroneBook.com  The Interview with CBS Atlanta’s  Lorraine Jacques White, on Call Tyrone is now available at CallTyroneBook.com

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By: Anonymous http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2383 Anonymous Mon, 30 Apr 2012 21:00:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2383 From his website, he speaks solely to Black people. He questions whether it is okay to date outside of race or religious affiliation. The chapters are specific to Black men. I'm not arguing that whether being single is more healthy than dating around (and, frankly, I think that dating around is fine but culturally we are very restrictive in terms of how we consider relationships and dating); Further, as stated in my post, he may be saying and interpreting from a biblical standpoint that being single is OK as compared to Jesus. However, do you think that this is a mixed message with the other determining factors of a woman's worth and where direction of family should come from, as stated in the same book? And what qualifies him to give advice to Black women about dating? From his website, he speaks solely to Black people. He questions whether it is okay to date outside of race or religious affiliation. The chapters are specific to Black men. I’m not arguing that whether being single is more healthy than dating around (and, frankly, I think that dating around is fine but culturally we are very restrictive in terms of how we consider relationships and dating); Further, as stated in my post, he may be saying and interpreting from a biblical standpoint that being single is OK as compared to Jesus. However, do you think that this is a mixed message with the other determining factors of a woman’s worth and where direction of family should come from, as stated in the same book? And what qualifies him to give advice to Black women about dating?

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By: Guest http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2382 Guest Mon, 30 Apr 2012 20:54:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2382  From the radio interviews...especially the on on CBS Atlanta - it seems as if he is seeking to explain biblically that singlness is a viable alternative when compared to hyperdating or unhealthy relationships. He doesn't condemn attraction to the same race.  From the radio interviews…especially the on on CBS Atlanta – it seems as if he is seeking to explain biblically that singlness is a viable alternative when compared to hyperdating or unhealthy relationships. He doesn’t condemn attraction to the same race.

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By: Anonymous http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2381 Anonymous Mon, 30 Apr 2012 20:51:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2381 So you would expect the encouragement of same-sex/same-gender partners or not? I think what you meant to say was in the initial comment. So you would expect the encouragement of same-sex/same-gender partners or not? I think what you meant to say was in the initial comment.

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By: Anonymous http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2380 Anonymous Mon, 30 Apr 2012 20:47:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2380 ...but you understand the criticisms and concerns that I have as a Black woman for a Black man to tell me that I'm doing it wrong and that I should embrace x-y-z solely based on his words -- whether or not the book has been published or not? Also, while I understand that (some) churches find this difficult to grapple: the assumption that all people are attracted to the opposite sex reinforces heterosexism and isolates members of the community, which includes the church. It makes what is an alleged safe space to members only inclusive of certain people, and while (some) churches have made strides in being welcoming of everyone, the subtle heterosexism and calls for this very restrictive homogeneity.  …but you understand the criticisms and concerns that I have as a Black woman for a Black man to tell me that I’m doing it wrong and that I should embrace x-y-z solely based on his words — whether or not the book has been published or not? Also, while I understand that (some) churches find this difficult to grapple: the assumption that all people are attracted to the opposite sex reinforces heterosexism and isolates members of the community, which includes the church. It makes what is an alleged safe space to members only inclusive of certain people, and while (some) churches have made strides in being welcoming of everyone, the subtle heterosexism and calls for this very restrictive homogeneity. 

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By: Guest http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2379 Guest Mon, 30 Apr 2012 20:36:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2379  Correction: "Wouldn't" expect him to suggest dating outside gender.  Correction: “Wouldn’t” expect him to suggest dating outside gender.

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By: Guest http://www.rippdemup.com/2012/04/pastor-jomo-k-johnsons-call-tyrone-not-so-helpful-dating-advice-from-the-black-pulpit/#comment-2378 Guest Mon, 30 Apr 2012 20:35:00 +0000 http://www.rippdemup.com/?p=5806#comment-2378  Well, as a Pastor, I would expect him to suggest dating outside gender. There's been alot of convo and controversy about this book, but its not even come out yet!  Well, as a Pastor, I would expect him to suggest dating outside gender. There’s been alot of convo and controversy about this book, but its not even come out yet!

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